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DREAMS ARE WHISPERS FROM THE SOUL BY MARCIA WIEDER

This is a really great book; I had a ton of Aha moments while reading this 105 page book. 

  1. Share your Dreams! – Most people keep their dreams to themselves for many reasons.

They are afraid of what people will say, people who know them the best, people who has seen them fail before, people who knows what mistakes they have made and assume that means they cannot do it.

They are afraid that they may be expected to do something about it or they may be held accountable for their dreams.

I’ve always been afraid that if I say my biggest dream too loudly or to too many people, that someone will steal my dream and I will be left with nothing. (Pretty selfish of me, huh?)

2. Discover what you are passionate about. It gives you examples of how to realize what you are passionate about.

Memories of when you felt joyful and enthusiastic or at peace.

Follow your feelings and look for a common thread.

Times in your life when you felt the most alive, what were you doing?

3. C-B-A’s for Achieving Your Dreams

Clearly Define Your Dreams(Get them out of your head and onto paper)

Believe In Your Dreams(Overcome limiting beliefs)

Act On Your Dreams(Take Action, create a strategy)

4. Deal with your self-doubt. Doubt is inevitably going to rear its ugly head and the absolute best thing to do is to hear it out, allow it to give you a list of obstacles that you can manage later. If you just ignore your doubt, the moment someone else shares their doubts about your dream with you, it will just magnify yours.

5. Use your unique gifts to barter or trade to make amazing things happen for you, do not allow money to be an obstacle that stands in your way.

6. The direct selling world is an industry that Dreams!

7. How to Build your Dream Circle.

Identify your compelling reason/purpose for doing this.

Find a powerful way to share your story.

Be clear about where you need help and who can assist you.

Don’t play small. Use all your resources.

Recognize who will be ongoing members.

Set up a system for continual support and accountability.

As your dream continues to grow, keep your eyes open for new team members.

If you experienced a ton of Aha moments just from reading my Aha moments then you should definitely consider picking up this book. Click the link below to get your copy.

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Dr. Cannon ;)

I was supposed to be the family doctor…

But that’s what I always said I was going to be. Once I realized my first dream to be the first woman to play for the NFL was not going to happen! I decided to think more on the practical side.

My first thought was to become a teacher because I love kids right. But then when I was in the fifth grade I realize that the kindergartners were bigger than me and they were mean! So yeah that wasn’t gonna work and OMG these kids these days are much worse.

I kind of was lost at that point until I started watching the Cosby show and noticed that Bill Cosby worked from his home a lot and he had his own office and I was always like what does he do because I want to do that! Come to find out he was an obstetrician and I looked it up and was like that is perfect. I mean I love kids but I don’t want to give them shots so I can’t be a pediatrician but I can definitely take care of a pregnant mom and birth the child for them and hand the baby off to the pediatrician, plus I hate it to watch stuff where doctors would be so rough with newborns while delivering them it just annoyed the crap out of me.

And so that was my dream from middle school through high school. I then spent 4 years at a community college, part time, in Maryland and then I spent 4 years part time in Charlotte UNCC as a biology major. The funny thing is I didn’t want to be a doctor, I I just think the body and the way it works is very interesting. But I had already told everyone I was gonna be a doctor and my grandma told everyone at church that I was going to be a doctor. So whenever I went to church they would say hey Doc this or hey Doc that. I felt like I was stuck so I tried to stick it out. To make it easier on myself I said that I would become a doctor and start my own practice and hire people to work there so that I didn’t have to work there. It was simply not what I wanted to do.

One day I was talking to my mom on the phone while walking to class and I hadn’t done my homework I hadn’t studied for like a quiz or a test and she was just like it doesn’t seem like you really want to do this. And I was like wow I really don’t but I’ve already told everybody and grandma‘s telling everybody. My mom said well guess what, you are the one who will have to live with this, you’re the person who will end up being unhappy so don’t worry about everybody else they’ll be OK they’ll get over it. Which they did LOL. No one calls me Doc anymore, thank God!

That day when she said that I literally and I mean literally turned my little butt around and went home and dropped every one my classes, I just needed a break or something. I’m still going to open a medical practice someday but I’m still not gonna be the one working in it but I would still love to have my own practice it just sounds like cool you know, boss, the bomb.com. And I’m definitely going to go back and finish my biology degree, I only have about five classes left so I owe that to myself to get my bachelors.

But I definitely feel like I wasted a lot of time doing something that I really didn’t want to do for other people. It’s definitely a lesson learned. I think I would’ve made a good lawyer, or I don’t know what else pro football player LOL. Either way I will learn how to think about me first, and to stop trying to please everyone else because….. What I want should matter to me more than what everyone else wants for me. I should know me better than anybody else.

P.S. I love Me, I love my God, I love my Baby Boy, I love my Hubby, I love my Family, I love my Friends, I love my Support System

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